tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7671150635409999549.post44124766532419587..comments2023-06-20T10:41:01.678-04:00Comments on Sex and The Suburbs: Sex Pre-Baby and Post-Baby: Two Different WorldsPetra a.k.a The Wise (*Young*) Mommyhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/01717981499965181200noreply@blogger.comBlogger10125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7671150635409999549.post-63178541311498682452009-10-26T00:04:05.264-04:002009-10-26T00:04:05.264-04:00Well the Q wasn't addressed to men but it seem...Well the Q wasn't addressed to men but it seems some women do fret about the size of their ummmm va-jag-na and I am here to state that I have never ever been able to feel a discernable difference. <br /><br />I do whish my bride was more open about what she wanted sexually though, I would do anything she asked.<br /><br />Ladies ask your man for what you want!!!Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7671150635409999549.post-51129739433910680692009-10-23T14:48:23.968-04:002009-10-23T14:48:23.968-04:00I didn't have many of the normal physical hang...I didn't have many of the normal physical hangups. I had a C-section so I wasn't worried about if I would feel different. I lost a lot of weight while pregnant due to gestational diabetes. I did have some hangups about my husband touching my boobs while I was still nursing. I was so afraid I would get excited and squirt him! My main problem was finding a time I wasn't utterly exhausted and still in the mood. Once the baby started sleeping through the night, we were back in the saddle again! I was worried with us co-sleeping how we would figure it out, but thats why we had a pack n play.Shayhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/15004392046854552409noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7671150635409999549.post-41793715095115603962009-10-21T11:51:26.508-04:002009-10-21T11:51:26.508-04:00Erin, you could never bore me! And feel free to un...Erin, you could never bore me! And feel free to unload by clicking on the link to the right that says "Stories and Suggestions", it's 100% anonymous.<br /><br />The more I know about what YOU want to hear about, the better the blog will be!Petra a.k.a The Wise (*Young*) Mommyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/01717981499965181200noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7671150635409999549.post-73988215100822263162009-10-20T19:43:06.592-04:002009-10-20T19:43:06.592-04:00(over from Sprite's Keeper)
I could spew out ...(over from Sprite's Keeper)<br /><br />I could spew out a list a mile long. Rather than bore you with all my "issues" I'd like to sit back and read for a while. ;)Erin@TheLocalsLoveIthttp://www.thelocalsloveit.comnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7671150635409999549.post-54292102089534588362009-10-20T08:52:42.425-04:002009-10-20T08:52:42.425-04:00I am continually amazed at how hard it is for men ...I am continually amazed at how hard it is for men and women to understand each other, sometimes I wonder how we ever live together! lol. <br /><br />But we have to keep trying to explain it to each other, right? What else is there?Petra a.k.a The Wise (*Young*) Mommyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/01717981499965181200noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7671150635409999549.post-69943269433184877572009-10-19T23:43:20.567-04:002009-10-19T23:43:20.567-04:00I think my post-baby-loving problem is really all ...I think my post-baby-loving problem is really all my partner; I try and tell the man what I want and he looks at me blankly. Sex after having my first baby last year has mostly been what sex generally is for him; a release. My frustrations usually build up over a few weeks, then I'll explode at him, pouring out my inner feelings and telling him what I want, but within less than a week we're back to quickie (playthrough) sex. My personal issues with post-baby sex are mostly the tired factor and the I-got-fatter factor, but my partner can't fathom that at all.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7671150635409999549.post-74360138027167948592009-10-19T20:11:20.441-04:002009-10-19T20:11:20.441-04:00I couldn't agree more. Mom of a two and half ...I couldn't agree more. Mom of a two and half year old and another on the way, it makes it hard to get up my inner sex kitten, but as you said a lot of it has to do with communication. For example two nights ago it was I would love to have sex but don't come suggest it after a long night as I am turning out my light, sometime in the previous two hours after our son went to bed would be good!Momma Hunthttps://www.blogger.com/profile/09273788279026700335noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7671150635409999549.post-31039911376571396522009-10-19T19:10:41.917-04:002009-10-19T19:10:41.917-04:00The hardest thing for me, after baby, was that I f...The hardest thing for me, after baby, was that I found I had to be the initiator<br />and why was that?<br />I would think back to the time when we couldn't wait to have at each other and cry...and that coupled with hormones and being home all day with no one adult to talk with made me all kinds of pleasant to come home to...<br />Communication. You are spot-on. I don't come equipped with an ESPN up-to-the-minute ticker so hubby had no idea what was running through my head.<br />Which was a lot...<br />So we talked, every night, for the 20 minutes our infant daughter slept :)<br />and we gradually brought back the good old days <br />albiet a little slower :)<br />It's been a while since my daughter's birth, middle-age has set in for the both of us and I find myself being the initiator again...<br />and why is that?<br />and so the communication begins again...<br /><br />you gotta kindle this fire with care :)<br /><br />Peace~ReneAnonymoushttps://www.blogger.com/profile/05088944123595868347noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7671150635409999549.post-67246733517104543932009-10-19T14:36:06.007-04:002009-10-19T14:36:06.007-04:00Thanks Steven! Welcome aboard and feel free to add...Thanks Steven! Welcome aboard and feel free to add the "male perpective" whenever you see fit!Petra a.k.a The Wise (*Young*) Mommyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/01717981499965181200noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7671150635409999549.post-74171814124818767402009-10-19T14:11:50.697-04:002009-10-19T14:11:50.697-04:00I found your blog through clark kents lunch box......I found your blog through clark kents lunch box.....so glad i did, im following;)Anonymousnoreply@blogger.com