tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7671150635409999549.post8466893540777000496..comments2023-06-20T10:41:01.678-04:00Comments on Sex and The Suburbs: An Apology To My Sex Life (And It's Not What You Think)Petra a.k.a The Wise (*Young*) Mommyhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/01717981499965181200noreply@blogger.comBlogger8125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7671150635409999549.post-19519385761395129492010-02-20T04:02:37.878-05:002010-02-20T04:02:37.878-05:00Interestingly, now that my husband and I have been...Interestingly, now that my husband and I have been together 25 years, have two halfway grown children, and have been through several rough patches in our marriage, I would say that our sex life is better than ever. Seriously. The communication needed to keep us together fueled more self-awareness and willingness to take risks, and now we are just hot with each other, despite the fatigue, extra pounds, and sagging.<br /><br />I really love that sex with my husband can cover such a range of emotions and meet so many different needs - it's totally hot and completely secure at the same time!Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7671150635409999549.post-72110018940105731462009-12-14T16:47:16.877-05:002009-12-14T16:47:16.877-05:00I didn't even finish reading this post yet, bu...I didn't even finish reading this post yet, but I have to tell you...<br /><br />"I also went from being 25, in the best shape of my life, having sex almost every day to 30, saggy and stretched out and having sex about once or twice a week. If I saw myself now back then, I would be horrified. Then I would go admire myself naked in the mirror and go have some crazy sex."<br /><br />This is what I think EVERY DAY!<br /><br />Ok, I'll continue reading now =)Nicolehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/01350932280098936053noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7671150635409999549.post-90421906636240611622009-12-04T07:54:32.696-05:002009-12-04T07:54:32.696-05:00Glad to hear it adrienzgirl! That really is all th...Glad to hear it adrienzgirl! That really is all that matters.Petra a.k.a The Wise (*Young*) Mommyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/01717981499965181200noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7671150635409999549.post-49461632459107354772009-12-03T22:37:12.507-05:002009-12-03T22:37:12.507-05:00As long as BOTH partners are satisfied, numbers do...As long as BOTH partners are satisfied, numbers do not matter. Period. The hubs and I were like rabbits 10 years ago. Today, we move more the turtles. But we are both happy and satisfied, sexually speaking! :Dadrienzgirlhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/00189335015566616247noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7671150635409999549.post-80445610599440073282009-12-03T10:52:47.345-05:002009-12-03T10:52:47.345-05:00as always, excellent input HeatherLynn :)as always, excellent input HeatherLynn :)Petra a.k.a The Wise (*Young*) Mommyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/01717981499965181200noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7671150635409999549.post-3094988187615320892009-12-03T10:31:51.384-05:002009-12-03T10:31:51.384-05:00Well, I think it's only natural...and life cha...Well, I think it's only natural...and life changes us, and priorities change, it happens. I agree you should not beat yourself or in this case your sexlife up for it...we all wish we had the waistline of 5 years ago, the SPARE TIME of 5 years ago...the energy, the carefreeness maybe...but yeah, you're 100% right...what was five years ago, is not today, the now, the here.<br /><br />Remember, it's not about quantity time with your spouse, it's about "quality time"...enjoy what you got, enjoy what you get, and the rest will all work out....who knows, you two might be that crazy passionate old couple making out on the beach at your retirement community in Florida when you're like a hundred...grossing out the youngsters that go by....youngsters that you won't even notice....<br /><br />so don't you worry your pretty head about this...ok?<br /><br />~hl~<br />{www.hoscorners.blogspot.com}HeatherLynnhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/09381169621382952337noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7671150635409999549.post-22369577230905271812009-12-03T08:42:12.915-05:002009-12-03T08:42:12.915-05:00Did I say there was no Santa Claus?Did I say there was no Santa Claus?Petra a.k.a The Wise (*Young*) Mommyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/01717981499965181200noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7671150635409999549.post-34197784312364056292009-12-03T08:36:27.815-05:002009-12-03T08:36:27.815-05:00wait what, theres no Santa Clause? damn it...
I ...wait what, theres no Santa Clause? damn it... <br /><br />I do agree that ones couples preference is the norm, and should not be compared to others. As long as they agree and are happy for it.<br /><br />Its just like everything else, you always need to adjust and adapt while being thankful for what you have. :)<br /><br />As far as raping your husband, im sure he would like that. lol.. <br /><br />P.H.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.com